Spinelli Bashing

Whew, glad we straightened that out.

Straightened what out, Tina?

You know, what we were talking about.

No I don't

Maxie is a good person, Jeff. She doesn't enjoy sex with Spazzy but she is willing to do it, and fake that she enjoys it, to be his essential person.

I'm glad my Essential Person does not make me have unwanted sex.

Me too.

Liason420 wrote:

Maxie is a good person, Jeff. She doesn't enjoy sex with Spazzy but she is willing to do it, and fake that she enjoys it, to be his essential person.

You shouldn't have to fake anything at all

Liason01 wrote:

I'm glad my Essential Person does not make me have unwanted sex.

I agree with you there

I agree, Jeff. When it's good - there is no faking necessary.

Even if it's bad do you guys think you should just say "that wasn't good"?

Diane - when it's that bad you aren't doing anyone any favors by letting them think otherwise. Sure, it might bruise an ego but at least they will know to practice more before they try again.

What do you think Jeff?

Do you tell them they are bad, Tina?

I'm not sure I should.

But you know if then maybe he wasn't doing something right.

Well if I say and then they usually take the hint.

Bwahahahaha

Ha ha ha ha

What is your opinion on that, Jeff?

I don't have one this is supose to be about Spinelli

Yes it is Jeff... do you think Maxie should fake the big O just because Spinelli is emotionally blackmailing her?

How is Spinelli blackmailing her?

He is taking away his friendship unless she pretends to be romantically interested in him. She wants to be his friend, he wants to be more so he is not being her friend until she acts like she feels more. Which leads us back to the question, Jeff, should Maxie fake like she likes sex with him just to keep him in her life?

He's withholding his friendship from her until she commits to him with her body. Maxie has said on numeros occasions that she does not feel the physical with Spinelli. (she has the hots for Johnny) and only loves Spinelli as a friend.

Following?

So if Maxie wants to be Spinelli's friend, he wants her to have a romantic relationship with him i.e. sex. Now poor Maxie's in a pickle. If she don't have sex with Spinelli he won't be her friend and she values their friendship. So now she has to do the deed with him.

I don't think that's right Jeff.... not at all. It's emotional blackmail and it's making Maxie sleep with Mr. Furley.